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Teacher's
Story
There is a story many years ago of an
elementary teacher. Her name was Mrs.
Thompson. And as she stood in front of
her 5th grade class on the very first
day of school, she told the children a
lie. Like most teachers, she looked
at her students and said that she loved
them all the same.
But that was impossible, because there in the front
row, slumped in his seat,
was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs.
Thompson had watched Teddy the
year before and noticed that he didn't play
well with the other children,
that his clothes were messy and that he
constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point
where Mrs. Thompson would
actually take delight in marking his papers with a
broad red pen, making bold
X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his
papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to
review each
child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However,
when she
reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise. Teddy's first grade
teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work
neatly and has good manners...he is a joy to be around." His second grade
teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but
he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness
and life at home
must be a struggle." His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death had been
hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest
and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken." Teddy's
fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest
in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in
class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of
herself.
She felt even worse when her student brought her Christmas presents,
wrapped
in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His
present was
clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a
grocery bag.
Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the
other presents. Some
of the children started to laugh when she found a
rhinestone bracelet with
some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was
one quarter full of perfume.
But she stifled the children's laughter when
she exclaimed how pretty the
bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of
the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just
long enough to say, "Mrs.
Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used
to." After the children
left she cried for at least an hour.
On that
very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic.
Instead,
she began to teach children.
Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to
Teddy. As she worked with him, his
mind seemed to come alive. The more she
encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had
become one of the smartest children in the
class and, despite her lie that
she would love all the children the same,
Teddy became one of her "teacher's
pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling
her that
she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole
life.
Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then
wrote that
he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still
the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four years after that,
she got another letter, saying that while things had
been tough at times,
he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon
graduate from
college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson
that she was
still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Then
four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he
explained
that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little
further.
The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite
teacher he ever
had. But now his name was a little longer -- the letter was
signed, Theodore
F. Stoddard, MD
The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet
another letter that
spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be
married. He
explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he
was wondering
if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding
that was
usually reserved for the mother of the groom.
Of course, Mrs.
Thompson did.
And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with
several rhinestones
missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume
that Teddy remembered
his mother wearing on their last Christmas
together.
They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs.
Thompson's ear,
"Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so
much for making
me feel important and showing me that I could make a
difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She
said, "Teddy, you
have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I
could make a
difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met
you."
Warm someone's heart today ... pass this along. Please remember
that wherever
you go, and whatever you do, you will have the opportunity to
touch and/or
change a person's outlook ... please try to do it in a positive
way.
CHRISTIAN OUTREACH Bill Eaton, Director